How I Got Here

Deb Martinson
Author of
Why I Am So Weird – How Self-Harm Nearly Killed Me While Saving My Life: A Memoir    

13215 35th Ave NE #A, Seattle
206-697-3029
lllama@gmail.com
https://whyamisoweird.com

I am a writer disguised as a computer geek.

PUBLICATIONS/MEDIA

8/2017
What It’s Like Shopping for a Wedding Dress as a Size 28
https://apracticalwedding.com/plus-size-wedding-gown-shopping  
11/2014
How to Donate Food So It Won’t Go to Waste
Reader’s Digest (print and digital editions)
https://www.rd.com/article/donate-food  

12/2013
How Not to Be a Dick at the Food Bank
xoJane.com

2/2013
It Happened to Me: I Avoided Being Raped and Then Got Raped Anyway
xoJane.com

2/2012 It Happened to Me: My Boyfriend Jumped Off a Bridge and Lived
xoJane.com
xoJane.com is no longer in publication. Story available at https://whyiamsoweird.com/?page_id=282

1/1999-4/2003
Created press releases, fact sheets, sample proclamations, guides for medical practitioners, brochures, and other materials for Self-Injury Awareness Day (March 1)  

3/1/2003 Guest on a Voice of America show on self-injury

1998
The Bill of Rights for People Who Self-Harm
http://selfinjury.org/brights.html  
Reprinted in several books, including:

Yearwood, E., Pearson G., and Newland, J. (2021) Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health
Ougrin, D., Yue, S. (2016) Self-Harm in Young PeopleWalsh, B. (2014) Treating Self-Injury: A Practical Guide (English and Dutch editions) 
Favazza, A. (2011) Bodies Under Siege: Self-Mutilation, NonSuicidal Self-Injury, and Body Modification in Culture and Psychiatry, Third Edition
Klonsky, E., Muehlenkamp, J., Lewis, S. (2011) Nonsuicidal Self-Injury
Penner. M. (2009). Hope and Healing for Kids Who Cut 

10/1996
20 minutes until i have to go to work
Being Online: Net Subjectivity
Alan Sondheim, Guest Editor
Lusitania Press  

1/1996 – 2007
Secret Shame informational website
“The first website to provide coherent, meaningful information to people who self-harm, to not only remove the stigma, but provide professionals with guidelines for how to deal with individuals who deliberately self-harm.” – A. Favazza, author of Bodies Under Siege  

Comprehensive review of 90s and early 2000s literature on self-harm, with resources for self-injurers, their families and friends, and professionals who treat them. No longer updated.  

1982 Newspaper articles for the Baylor Lariat, the Waco Tribune-Herald, and the Mount Pleasant Daily Tribune  

Career

2/2015 – present
Senior Software Support Analyst, tyler technologies  

1/2010 – 2/2015
Software Support Analyst, Tyler Technologies  

2/2006 – 1/2010
Software Support Specialist, Tyler Technologies  

4/2004 – 2/2006
Tier 3 Support Tech, WDS Global  

2001 – 2003
Volunteer Support Group Leader, America Online
Led support groups for people who self-harm  

4/2002 – 11/2002
Customer Service/Technical Support Rep, Flying Crocodile, INC Provided HTML assistance with porn sites and explained those credit card charges

1/1999 – 3/2003
Founder and Organizer,
American Self-Harm Information Clearinghouse (ASHIC)
Organized first Self-Harm Awareness Day (March1)
Produced brochures, fact sheets, and mayoral proclamations

5/1999 – 12/1999 Administrative Assistant II, City of Seattle  

1/1998 – 6/2007
Founder and Admin,Bodies Under Siege web board
Information and support for people who self-injure
More than 10k members and 3.5 million posts at its height (2000-2004)
Still being run by volunteer administrators  

4/1996 – 2000
Founder and moderator, bodies-under-siege email Support list  

1/1996 – 2007
Owner, Secret Shame website  
https://selfinjury.org

1994 – 1995
Software Support Representative, SPSS Assisted users in working with SPSS, a statistical program  
1993 – 1994
Data Management and Statistical Support, University of Chicago/National Opinion Research Center (NORC)  
1991 – 1992
Proofreader, G&S Typesetters  
1985-1989
Proofreader, United Methodist Reporter  
6/82 – 12/82
Features reporter, Mount Pleasant Daily Tribune   6/82 Freelance reporter, Waco Tribune-Herald  
1/1982 – 5/1982
General reporter, Baylor Lariat

Education

6/2020 Knowledge-Centered Service v6 Practices certification

12/2014 Microsoft Certified Solutions Associate, SQL Server

5/1989 Bachelor of Science, Psychology (with High Honors)
University of Texas at Arlington
3.7 GPA.
Completed Liberal Arts and Psychology Honors Programs
Elected to:
Chi Alpha Academic Honor Society
Pi Mu Epsilon Mathematics Honor Society
Psi Chi Psychology Honor Society
Participated in national conference on interdisciplinary collegiate education
GRE: 800 verbal, 780 math, 800 logic (800 max per section)